Bad things about dating older men
There are actually two things to consider here – his children, and your potential children. As a man gets older, it becomes increasingly likely that he will have fathered some children along the way.
These children will take up his time, whether they live with him or he spends his weekends with them.
Do you need help setting up automatic bill pay or your 401(k)?
Any decently nice guy accumulates ex-girlfriend friends.
He may be 45 and fit now, but when you’re reaching middle age, he might be classed as an OAP and will most likely suffer from the health issues that hit men of a certain age.
These problems have to become yours too if you’re to have a happy, understanding relationship.
You never know when you’ll find love – it often comes from the most surprising places.
And at eharmony, as we’re focused on deep-down compatibility, who you connect with can be even more surprising.
We know what we want out of life, and we're probably not going to change it. It’s generally considered that women peak sexually between 25 and 40, while men peak between 18 and 25.While it doesn’t take a genius to work out the difference there, you should bear in mind that everyone is different. Thanks to the patriarchy, women learn to master blow jobs early in their sexual lives (sometimes before they even lose their virginity) but guys typically don't figure out that women want their vulvas licked until their mid-20s. Either way, older guys are more likely to be the most comfortable snuggle you've ever had. He holds it out from his body like he has stiff little Tyrannosaurus arms and the baby hangs there like, "Who the fuck handed me to this beer-breathed sociopath in cargo shorts? He doesn't try to get away with not using a condom. Have you ever seen an early-twentysomething guy get handed a baby?
Their ideas about the way the world should work will be fully formed and it’s very unlikely they’ll change.